Get Her Phone Number in Less Than 5 Minutes...

How to walk into any bar or club and get an attractive woman's phone number in less than 5 minutes...

By: Ben Ezra

It's a Saturday night, and your out with your buddies at some extremely "happening" nightclub downtown. The women there are drop-dead gorgeous, and if it wasn't for those couple shots of tequila you very confidently chugged down earlier, the thought of approaching one of these "goddess like" women would have probably never crossed your mind...

But thanks to good old alcohol, what seemed impossible before, now seems as easy as stealing candy from a baby - there is hope! But what do you do now? You have finally worked up the courage to even think of approaching this goddess of a woman, but how are you going to pull it off without looking like a complete drunken idiot who just chugged down about 8 shots of tequila?

Well... You pretty much have three choices: One, you either walk up to her, make a fool of yourself, and get brutally rejected. Two, you can decide to simply do nothing and continue chugging down on the alcohol until you pass out and fall asleep on some couch next to coat-check. Or... Three, you can get a hold of yourself and the situation, confidently get her attention, introduce yourself, and walk away with her phone number a couple of minutes later (unless you decide to take her home)...

If you have two testicles and like the thought of getting attractive women's phone numbers, then I am pretty confident that you would prefer to go with choice number three. If not, then you probably shouldn't be reading this...

So...

I would say that there are many ways in which you could approach a situation of this sort in a successful manner, all you would need is some confidence and creativity!

The "Attention" Catcher

If you want to truly stand out from the crowd you must learn to be different in an interesting way. There are two main ways in which you can get the attention of an attractive woman at a bar; "The Direct Approach" or "The Creative Approach". I personally enjoy using the "Creative Approach" in most situations, although the "Direct Approach" can work wonders if used at the precise moment.

By "The Direct Approach" I mean; locking eye contact with someone you find attractive and walking straight towards them without any hesitation and simply saying something like, “Hi! I couldn’t help but notice you from across the room and I just wanted to see what you are like..." Keep in mind; this might turn a woman off if used in the wrong manner or time.

By “The Creative Approach” I mean; being able to naturally set up a scenario where everything simply seems to fall into place, almost as if it was meant to be (although in reality it was planned). It may involve anything from asking an opinion on a certain topic, to designing a situation that will cause them to approach you… it simply takes some thought. Watch Cary Grant in the 1955 hit movie "To Catch A Thief" and notice how he gets the attention of the woman he was after by simply using creativity!

Try to stay away from using the common “approach” of over-complimenting and begin to stand out of the crowd! If you do this, you shall become a topic of interest among those you plan on attracting.

Simply charm her for a bit, make her laugh, and then say "You know what, you seem like a really great person, but I have to go now. We should continue this conversation another time... What's your number?"

...And Bada-Bing-Bada-Boom! Instead of passing out and going home empty handed, you can now leave the club with a drop-dead gorgeous woman's phone number. And who knows... You might even get a few more numbers on your way out.

Don't be the guy that sees an attractive woman, and just stands there looking at a wall... Make your move, and there will be a very good chance that you will walk away successful. As long as you use a bit of creativity and confidence!

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