Where Should You Take Her?
By: Ben Ezra
Dating Coach
So you met this babe a few days back, got her number, and you now want to take her out on a memorable date. The question is, where? Well, you can go ahead and do the usual dinner and a movie thing, but why in the world would you want to do something as predictable and boring as that! Trust me on that one. The dinner and movie thing is way over done, gentlemen. Don’t take them to the same common and boring places as most men. Instead, stand out by being different and creative, and take them somewhere fun, interesting, and exhilarating. Yes, exhilarating! The key is to get all their senses involved and create a short, but sweet, unforgettable experience that was well orchestrated by you.
If you heed the following guidelines, you will be more prepared than 95% of the men out there, and be able to plan an unforgettable date at the snap of a finger. Nothing turns her on more than a man with a plan. A few simple and inexpensive date ideas coming right up!
The Outdoors
If the weather is right, nothing beats the outdoors for creative date ideas that don’t cost a dime. Take her to a nice nature filled park with a lake or beach and simply go for a walk. Find a comfortable place, sit down, relax, and get to know her. Engage in some interesting and stimulating conversation. You could also head out to a free outdoor concert or local festival if you’d like. The zoo is also cool and fun place to take a woman, as long as you don’t mind spending a few bucks on the entrance fee. Whatever you choose to do, know that most women will appreciate some good old outdoors fun much more than a dinner and movie!
Jazz/Piano Bar
If you have that classy, mysterious, James Bondish kind of thing going for you, then this is the kind of place you want to take your women. And while you’re at it, go ahead and order a Vodka Martini. Shaken, Not Stirred. These kinds of places tend to have a great atmosphere, and the music is just right. Not too soft, and not too loud - great ambience for some intimate conversation.
Play A Game
The best foreground to teasing and flirting is by challenging your date to a game that you are awesome at (but don’t tell her how good you are). If you’re really great at art, take her painting, and turn it into a little painting contest. If you enjoy bowling, do that. Catch my drift? You can go shoot pool, play a game of miniature golf, challenge her to one-on-one basketball, and so on. Whatever you choose to challenge her at, make sure you make the process as fun as possible, and win of course. That will leave you with some great teasing/flirting ammunition for later.
Grab A Bite
Getting the taste buds involved during a date is never a bad idea. But, you don’t want to over do it, by spending $400.00 on an extra fancy bottle of wine and steak dinner. Unless you can really afford to, but even then, you are probably better off sticking to something a bit simpler. Find a place that not everyone knows about, perhaps next to a beach or lakeshore for a complimenting post dinner stroll. A little shared chocolaty dessert or ice cream can never hurt as well.
Local Art Gallery
If you have a taste for art, or you just feel like doing something different for a change, check out a local art gallery with your date. It’s actually very interesting and most importantly, different! This will give you and your date the perfect opportunity to chitchat and share thoughts. Each piece of art will be a new conversational topic. Afternoon or evening, the Art Gallery is a great place to take your date.
Mix & Match
Now that you have a pretty good idea of where to take her, we recommend switching it up every now and then to keep things fresh and interesting. You can even take her to all, or just a few of the places mentioned above in the same night. Like mini dates within a date. The more interesting things you do together, the more likely you are to connect. One thing is for sure though – it will be a very memorable night for her! (And the chances of getting “lucky” at the end of the date will increase ten fold). Click here for more dating tips!
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