A Message From Ben Ezra

Dating Tips For Men INTRO Video

By: Ben Ezra
Dating Coach

Here is a little video I recently posted on my website, www.DatingTipsForMen.com. Make sure to check it out, and read the letter below the video, on my website!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=svkqnyCskzA

Dating Tips For Men Free Audio Preview - Secrets Revealed

The MWD Model - A Sneak Peak

By: Ben Ezra
Dating Coach

Hey guys, I just recently put together a little audio sample from a small part my book, "Modern World Dating: How to Meet & Date Women" and wanted to share it with all of you! I briefly go over a few of the key topics from the third section of my book, entitled "Getting Down to Business". In this section of the book, I cover all the specifics... Everything from approaching a woman, all the way to getting her into bed.

There is a lot of great advice in these 2 clips, so make sure you watch them both!

PART 1


If you are having trouble seeing the clip, watch it here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DrIgvnJ0bEs  :

PART 2


If you are having trouble seeing the clip, watch it here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zWgw5Em7-ak

There you go! I know that a lot of what I was saying probably didn't make too much sense to you right away, and that is OK. I go into MUCH MORE detail in the actual book, and explain how to actually build the perfect amount of attraction and comfort, step-by-step... Phase-by-phase...

I dedicate a section for each part of the MWD Model in my book, so you will never have to play the guessing game on what you should do, or how you should do it anymore... There is a real and proven science behind my MWD Model, and I am ready to teach it to you! So go ahead and visit www.DatingTipsForMen.com  right now to order your copy, and begin your journey to becoming amazing with women!

Hope you enjoyed the information. Stay updated as I will be posting many new live videos of me giving more free advice soon!

Sick Kids Bell Gala Celebrity Charity Event

2009 Bell Gala

By: Ben Ezra
Dating Coach

Last night I was part of a very special event. Celebrities, amongst many other attendees, were there to show their support for the all too important Sick Kids Charity Foundation.

George Stroumboulopoulos - Host of CBC's The Hour

A great night, with great performances by Artists such as Our Lady Peace, Natasha Bedingfield, and many more! Over 2000 people came out to show their support, and I would like to do my part by donating all profits from books sold within the next month to the Sick Kids Charity Foundation.

Jerome Williams - Former NBA Star

  

Mariana Valente - Miss Universe Canada

 

Edge - WWE Superstar

To order a book, visit www.DatingTipsForMen.com

If you would simply like to make a donation to the Sick Kids Foundation, and help make a difference in a child's life, visit  www.SickKidsFoundation.com/donate/ to make a donation!  

Best Places To Take Your Date

Where Should You Take Her?

By: Ben Ezra
Dating Coach

So you met this babe a few days back, got her number, and you now want to take her out on a memorable date. The question is, where? Well, you can go ahead and do the usual dinner and a movie thing, but why in the world would you want to do something as predictable and boring as that! Trust me on that one. The dinner and movie thing is way over done, gentlemen. Don’t take them to the same common and boring places as most men. Instead, stand out by being different and creative, and take them somewhere fun, interesting, and exhilarating. Yes, exhilarating! The key is to get all their senses involved and create a short, but sweet, unforgettable experience that was well orchestrated by you.

If you heed the following guidelines, you will be more prepared than 95% of the men out there, and be able to plan an unforgettable date at the snap of a finger. Nothing turns her on more than a man with a plan. A few simple and inexpensive date ideas coming right up!

The Outdoors

If the weather is right, nothing beats the outdoors for creative date ideas that don’t cost a dime. Take her to a nice nature filled park with a lake or beach and simply go for a walk. Find a comfortable place, sit down, relax, and get to know her. Engage in some interesting and stimulating conversation. You could also head out to a free outdoor concert or local festival if you’d like. The zoo is also cool and fun place to take a woman, as long as you don’t mind spending a few bucks on the entrance fee. Whatever you choose to do, know that most women will appreciate some good old outdoors fun much more than a dinner and movie!

Jazz/Piano Bar

If you have that classy, mysterious, James Bondish kind of thing going for you, then this is the kind of place you want to take your women. And while you’re at it, go ahead and order a Vodka Martini. Shaken, Not Stirred. These kinds of places tend to have a great atmosphere, and the music is just right. Not too soft, and not too loud - great ambience for some intimate conversation.

Play A Game

The best foreground to teasing and flirting is by challenging your date to a game that you are awesome at (but don’t tell her how good you are). If you’re really great at art, take her painting, and turn it into a little painting contest. If you enjoy bowling, do that. Catch my drift? You can go shoot pool, play a game of miniature golf, challenge her to one-on-one basketball, and so on. Whatever you choose to challenge her at, make sure you make the process as fun as possible, and win of course. That will leave you with some great teasing/flirting ammunition for later.

Grab A Bite

Getting the taste buds involved during a date is never a bad idea. But, you don’t want to over do it, by spending $400.00 on an extra fancy bottle of wine and steak dinner. Unless you can really afford to, but even then, you are probably better off sticking to something a bit simpler. Find a place that not everyone knows about, perhaps next to a beach or lakeshore for a complimenting post dinner stroll. A little shared chocolaty dessert or ice cream can never hurt as well.

Local Art Gallery

If you have a taste for art, or you just feel like doing something different for a change, check out a local art gallery with your date. It’s actually very interesting and most importantly, different! This will give you and your date the perfect opportunity to chitchat and share thoughts. Each piece of art will be a new conversational topic. Afternoon or evening, the Art Gallery is a great place to take your date.

Mix & Match

Now that you have a pretty good idea of where to take her, we recommend switching it up every now and then to keep things fresh and interesting. You can even take her to all, or just a few of the places mentioned above in the same night. Like mini dates within a date. The more interesting things you do together, the more likely you are to connect. One thing is for sure though – it will be a very memorable night for her! (And the chances of getting “lucky” at the end of the date will increase ten fold). Click here for more dating tips!

Going For The Home Run

The A's & B's of Good Sex

By: Ben Ezra

You built enough comfort and attraction and the woman is now in your bed... What now? Where do you begin? What should you do first?

I like to think of sex as a nice slow game of baseball. The good games usually consist of good timing, patience, and a good amount of skill. Long baseball games are only boring to those who don't really know what's going on. I find that it's the same with sex. To be good at it, you need to understand timing, you need to be patient, and you should also have some pretty good skills!

The problem I find with most guys is that they simply move into everything way too fast, and before the woman even has a chance to moan, it's all done. OR, they simply don't know what the hell they are doing at all! There is definitely a difference between just sex, good sex, and GREAT sex... And I will try to point out these differences as I go along...

For a guy, all sex is pretty much the same: we see, we conquer, and we cum... But for a woman, it's much more complex than that...

I talk a lot about building comfort and attraction in my book, and how important it is if you want to get to the "bed phase" (phase 8) asap. The thing is though, just because you made it to the bed, does not mean you have to stop building comfort and attraction. You must continue building the comfort and attraction even during the sex. And you do this in 2 ways:

1) By continuing to do different things that turn them on, &

2) By taking your sweet ass time

By following those 2 guidelines you will convey to the woman that you are in no rush whatsoever (which will lower her guard and make her feel more comfortable with you) and that you know how to turn a woman on (which will excite her and make her go into a state of sexual ecstasy).

Most women almost never reach an orgasm during sex because most guys don't follow those 2 simple guidelines! Think about it...

For a woman to be able to reach an orgasm, her comfort level has to be VERY high. And she has to be continuously stimulated in the right places, in the right ways, for a certain amount of time. It could take 5 minutes, 10 minutes, 20 minutes, 30 minutes, 45 minutes, etc... Depending on the woman, and depending on how comfortable and turned on she is.

Some of you guys might be thinking, "Well, I can only last for 5-10 minutes IF IM LUCKY so is there any hope for me?"

Luckily, you don't actually need to be having continuous sex for a woman to reach an orgasm. If you feel like you are about to blow your load, stop, take it out, and begin giving her oral sex, play with her clit, or simply start fingering her instead... Or a combination of all three. And then after you've done that for a bit, and you took back some control over captain willy, get back to fucking her again... And so on... Repeat that as many times as you need to, as long as you don't blow your load.

To make sex long, great, and memorable, try to incorporate all these things:

- Constantly change positions (doggy, on a chair, on a table, standing, against a wall, etc...)
- Change locations (change rooms, change scenery, outside, etc...)
- Finger her and stimulate her clit - Use your tongue (oral sex)
- Stimulate her nipples and the area around them (areola)
- Lick her lightly around areas such as the neck, breasts, thighs, & ears
- Use your warm breath by breathing in and out extremely close to her neck and ear area during any of the above (will give her goose bumps)
- Use scented candles in background
- Play sensual music or trance in background
- Use massaging techniques with warm and scented massage oils
- Strawberries and chocolate (use sex food)
- Use sex toys

AND SO ON!

If you follow these guidelines, the women you sleep with will not know what just hit them... Well, I guess you can say they will ;) And they will definitely remember it and want it again!

And that's the whole point isn't it? To make them want it again, and again, and again... Always coming / cuming back for more...

All in all, make sure you excite her enough before you start giving her what she wants... and even then,,, make sure you don't stop giving her what she wants until she becomes addicted! In short, make sure ALL the bases are loaded before you go in for the home run!

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"A Life Worth Living, Is A Life Worth Improving."

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YES – You Look Fat in Those Pants!

Learn How to Playfully Tease a Woman By Being Different, Confident, & Funny…

By: Ben Ezra

As you are reading this, about one million women all over the world are turning to their husbands or boyfriends, and asking them the million dollar question – the one that causes most men to hesitate before answering… And no, it's not, "Are you cheating on me?"

“Honey… Do these pants make me look fat?”

If this has never happened to you yet, let me prepare you, because it will! As much as you may want to avoid this question, it will eventually arise – there is no escape. But the question is: are you going to know how to properly deal with it when it comes along?

Well, before I get into how you should deal with a question of this sort, let me give you a couple of the most common answers that most men give:

- “Of course not honey… They make you look beautiful.”
- “Turn around… No sweetheart, they look great on you.”
- “No, it actually makes you look skinnier…”
- “What kind of stupid question is that?”
- “I don’t know… Don’t bother me.”
- “How am I supposed to know? Am I some fashion expert?”

I am not saying that there is anything wrong with any of the previous answers, but I am about to go against what every man out there thinks he should say to a woman when she asks this question… The next time a woman asks you, “Honey… Do these pants make me look fat?” You will pause for a second… Look her up and down (as if you are grading her), and then in an extremely serious tone say:

“Yes honey… You look extremely fat in those pants, I mean, when did you decide to stop taking care of yourself? This relationship is never going to work out fatty pants…”

And then, just before she is about to slap you… Walk up to her; gently spank her tush and say, “Actually, now that I have come to think of it, you would make a great J-LO – a sexier version.” If you say this in a teasingly fashion, and the woman who you are saying it to doesn't have a low self-esteem, isn’t actually really fat, and has a sense of humor, then chances are that the outcome will be positive.

It’s great to playfully tease women, and a question like this gives you the perfect opportunity to do so. She might end up playfully hitting you on the arm, while saying something like; “You’re bad!” to which you can reply, “That’s my name, don’t wear it out!”

Be different from every Joe Shmoe that tells women what they think they want to hear, and begin to be a bit unpredictable. This does not only keep things interesting, but it keeps things fun as well! It never hurts to tell a woman the opposite of what she wants to hear; as long as you say it in a teasingly and playful manner. This may very well work to your benefit.

Side effects may include: redness of the face from getting slapped, a broken nose from getting punched, or a more likely slap to the arm… Use at your own risk! ;-)

For more on being different, confident, & funny, click here.

What Women Want - From A Woman Herself

Enter A Woman's Mind By First Understanding Her Most Basic & Deepest Instinctual Desires...

By: Ben Ezra

Thousands of years ago; before there were fancy cars, the media, Paris Hilton, Bling-Bling, and any other kind of flashy image portrayed by society as being “attractive” and “desired” by others, there was something deeper – something less materialistic and physical…

Women wanted something that was rare, but it wasn’t any kind of diamond or tangible item. They desired certain feelings; deep feelings that could only come from the opposite sex – man.

There were certain elements that triggered true attraction for them, but they had nothing to do with how much money someone had, or how good they looked, or how old they were…

It was more along the lines of how they lived, who they were, why they did the things they did. What inspired them? What truly made them the men that they were?

As much as you may think, things haven’t changed much since then… Perhaps they simply became less clear and lost somewhere along the way. But women still want those deep feelings – they need them. And as for us men, we need not to overlook these most basic desires of a woman.

I have found a few short paragraphs written by a woman that very precisely dwells on this topic. No one can say it better than a woman herself.

Enjoy…

THE INVITATION

(by Oriah Mountain Dreamer, Indian Elder)

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living;
I want to know what you ache for,
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are;
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love,
for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon;
I want to know if you have touched the center of your sorrow,
if you have been opened by life's betrayals,
or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain!
I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine and your own,
without moving to hide it, or fade it, or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with JOY, mine or your own;
if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your
fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful,
to be realistic, or to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true;
I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself;
if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul;
I want to know if you can be faithful and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see beauty even when it is not pretty everyday,
and if you can source your life from its presence;
I want to know if you can live with failure, yours or mine,
and still stand on the edge of a lake and shout to the silver of the full moon,
"YES!"

It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have;
I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair,
weary and bruised to the bone,
and do what needs to be done for the children.

It doesn't interest me who you are, or how you came to be here;
I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink
back.

It doesn't interest me where, or what, or with whom you have studied;
I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away;
I want to know if you can be alone with yourself,
and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.

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You see…

At the end of it all, acting fake around women, pretending to be something your not, spending all this extra money on women so that you can “impress” them, buying that 2006 BMW 745Li so you can show off in style, doesn’t really matter… It’s not what women want (at least not quality women).

They want you to be a MAN. Someone who stays true to who he is, and will never try to put on fake airs or say something because he thinks, that’s the right thing to say…You have to be real.

I talk a lot about this in my book, and dig much deeper than the surface. If this makes sense to you, you might want to check out my book, Modern World Dating. Click here.

You got to smile and enjoy this journey called life, no matter what. Stay true to who you are, follow no one but you heart, always be willing to take a punch for what you believe is right, and be forever grateful for everything in your life!

If you will live this way…

I can guarantee that the women around you will notice.